On Tuesday 28 November, in the heart of Newton Park, Port Elizabeth, a pivotal event that underscored the significance of male involvement in combating gender-based violence (GBV) was hosted at a local drop-in centre on 51 Shirley Street to mark the beginning of the 16 Days of Activism—16 days dedicated internationally to opposing violence against women and children.

Supported by the South African Network of People Who Use Drugs (SANPUD) and organised by TB/HIV Care with a coalition of committed stakeholders—Sophakama organisation, Men's Engage Health, Algoa Police station—this event was a clarion call to men, especially those who inject drugs (PWID male clients) from sub-district C, to engage, reflect, and act against the pervasive threat of GBV. Through forums and breakout sessions, the men confronted issues such as GBV and healthcare services and had the opportunity to get more information on how to navigate and access various support systems.

The venture recognises the complex forces that shape male identities within the community: provider, protector, and the pressures intertwined with these roles. ‘It’s not easy for men with all the pressures that we have. You are the provider and the protector. If you cannot provide, protect, and do all these things, These challenges come to you. We are grateful for being here and for all the services that you give to the community that can help us deal with our stress in constructive ways."

This initiative was more than just a discussion; it's a transformative dialogue that allows men to unlearn patterns that propagate gender-based violence while exploring challenges specific to them. It serves as an acknowledgment and validation of their role within their community, and they were urged to rise to the call for positive change. A participant noted that men's real strength lies in safeguarding all community members, particularly women, against violence.

“It is heartwarming to know that there are some people out there wanting to help us. I know what we do is not always right. We are not always making the right decisions, but we now have guidance and people that support  us.
Service providers are an essential component of this community scaffold, offering direct support to victims of GBV. A Human Rights Advocacy officer indicated their dedication by ensuring that survivors are not only heard but also expertly guided through the process of seeking justice.

The poignant reflections of individuals previously ensnared in cycles of substance abuse and toxicity underscore the event's success. The testimonies culminated with an individual living with HIV reflecting on the enlightenment the event provided. Relationships once marred with emotional abuse are now recognised as toxic. The event ends on a hopeful note, illustrating that with awareness and support, the cycle of violence can be interrupted, promoting healthier ways to resolve conflicts.
“I am so grateful that Step Up gave us this opportunity to learn more about this and how to implement it in our lives. I have been driven so many times, where I really want to choke my girlfriend, but now I know there’s other ways and means of resolving conflict with my partners”.

Men's participation in ending GBV illuminates the collective responsibility that society shares in fostering safe environments for all. As the 16 Days of Activism is set in motion in Port Elizabeth, the men of district C, supported by stalwart organisations, left the workshop as beacon-bearers, leading a social transformation—one where choosing non-violence is an expression of true strength and masculinity.